I've been thinking a lot about family these days... Usually families are a source of support, friendship, caring and love. That's something everybody wants. Some people may be tired of familiars because of their behavior. But although u may not like that person's behavior, u still love her. It's family after all. Often I hear friends blaming their parents for being very annoying and that they r always complaining. Well, this problem can be solved with a serious conversation with them. Why not sat a bit with them or just one of them and tell what goes on ur heart? U should not be afraid of telling what u feeling to the people which care the most about u. If u r not happy, they need to know. If u don't tell them that, it's hard to guess! Sometimes is good to put ourselves in the other shoes before we create wrong statements. So, if you have problems with ur family, talk to them. Try to stay calm during the conversation. Screaming to prove ur point of view doesn't take u anywhere and creates a bad environment.
U should preserve ur family while u have it. Remember that they will not be always there for u. But, before that time arrives, u will be able to have lot's of enjoyable moments that u will certain will reproduce when u grow up and have ur own family. If that happens... We don't know the future. For me, for instance, is going to be very hard to have a family. The career I chose takes lots of time of one person and it is very hard to be with the family or create one. Also, if u ain't got the luck to be loved by someone else, u r screwed. Unless u want to have a child on ur own and then u can use science or even adopt or, like in the movies, use a friend xD
But family doesn't mean kids. Family is a group of people that make o feel loved, special, supported and that care about u. That's family!
If it happens u already have a family, then congratulations u made it! U created something unique and full of love. U should be proud and thank god/destiny/science for that wonderful gift.
Anyways, whatever is ur current situation. Just make sure ur choices now will make u happy in the future.
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